Monday, January 24, 2011

Snippets of my life

No time for profound thoughts or beautiful prose today but I wanted to post a few things. So here they are:

1. Holding my first grandchild for hours on end was one of the sweetest things I've ever done. Mom and Dad don't want pictures of her on the internet yet, so no pics, but in time honored grandma fashion, I think she's the most beautiful baby on the planet!

2. My son told me about this article in Salon magazine about feminist, atheist women addicted to Mormon Mommy blogs; a very interesting read. However, I had two beefs: 1. The notion that a majority of mormon women are stay-at-home moms because of societal pressures. It says a lot about our world that the assumption is that women would never freely choose this lifestyle for themselves. 2. Many of the comments and a smidge of the article were skeptical that these "ideal" lives, without trial or struggle are real ("arranging flowers all day" etc). One of the four blogs mentioned in the article, of which I am an avid follower, NieNie Dialogues, catalogues Stefanie Nielson's life as a mom. Far from a life without trial, this woman was burned over most of her body in a plane crash, almost died and still struggles daily with physical limitations as a result. And yet, she chooses to focus on the beauty. It doesn't get more real than this.

3. Being in the east to visit family, I did not clean a thing, cook a meal, or scold a single child for five whole days. It was bliss. I also did not receive a single kid's kiss, snuggle any sleepy seven year olds, or giggle and play with with my twelve and fifteen year olds. It was a pit!
It's good to be home!


  1. wow, congratulations on the granddaughter!

    interesting article. makes you think...

  2. What a joy to be a grandma. It's also a joy to be a "Morman Mom". I guess no blog can really tell it all like it is. I just know I still think it's is the best job on earth. Love my children, adore my grandchildren and am amazed to have a bunch of darling great grandchildren. They all make my life rich and full and happy for the most part.

  3. You are just wonderful and wanted to share that!! I love you lots and have looked up to you (literally and figuratively) for years!!

  4. Sounds like you had a little bit of heaven, holding a baby! That is delightful.
    It's kinda nice not to have to do dishes isn't it?

  5. So glad you finally made it down here to meet your little one. And I whole-heartedly agree about the article. Well said.

  6. How nice of you to check in! I loved reading what you were up to. Yay on the baby holding! That's the best stuff. I tell my baby all the time, "You are just DESSERT!!!"

    Now I'm off to read that article.